In this generation, we try to look nice in front of people. We pretend to be
someone we are not so that people would like to hang out with us. There are
problems in everyone's life but we have to deal with them with strength and
courage. Now a day the biggest problems are of relationships that can be of any
kind like friends, boyfriend girlfriend, family, etc. But we need to have good
relationships to survive in society. The relationships become complicated only when we let them make it complicated.
What can hurt do?
We talk to people. We interact with them. We get attached to them. Sometimes
that is the wrong person but we are so much attached to that person with whom
we used to talk daily and so any kind of rudeness from them makes us feel bad.
Then we get to know that, that person doesn't think us as important as we think
of them. And that hurts like hell. Sometimes in that phase, we can't even
breathe, we just think that we didn't deserve that. We get changed after
that heartbreak, our behavior towards people starts changing, we start
believing that everyone is the same. But we forget that God has made every
human being different and everyone is given a heart. We just have to stop
counting stones and instead start counting the diamonds in the ocean. The pain
can help us grow professionally and gives us strength mentally to handle things.
It can make you a stronger person than you never thought you can ever be. Sometimes hurt can feel like breaking into small pieces.
Why are relationships so hard to handle?
Why do we make it complicated? Why can't we keep it simple?
Now that's the human brain that overthinks everything. In a relationship
we want another person to be what they are not just so that we like them. We try
to change things. But the fact is that in love things should be simple and
learn to accept things as they are. It depends on the individual that how much
effort they want to put into their relationship. How they want their life to
move ahead.
Things become
difficult when there is a burden of huge responsibility. But you have to prove
yourself in every situation. Everything requires time to change and time
changes everything along with the people. Always do good to others
as hurting others will hurt you even more. You are given a life to help,
respect, and love people around us. Have a big heart to forgive rather than
forget. As we have only one life so be nice. Even though we don't receive
what we give then also don't stop giving as one day the sun will rise. You know you
are strong and that's enough to survive.
Everything that happens in life happens for good. We just need to understand
that and we will be happy. We attract only the positive things when we think of
our happiness. Everyone comes in life for a reason and we need to find that
reason so that everyone will be happy in their relationships. The most
important thing one can make is a true and beautiful relationship with
someone. The experience of being is a
relationship is very beautiful. But we need to be true and honest with our
feelings as well as with the person. Whatever bad happens to us should not let
us change the real personality of ours as that past is gone and there is no way
we can change it.
So just ‘Live in the moment.'
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